tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post3531925336251373504..comments2023-09-23T06:21:53.702-07:00Comments on Woman with No Regrets: SadnessNoRegretshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-33523678435725500092008-09-12T02:51:00.000-07:002008-09-12T02:51:00.000-07:00no bra--sounds like a good search term to me.....I...no bra--sounds like a good search term to me.....<BR/><BR/>I hope the performance review goes well in all seriousness.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-64359546258012857992008-09-11T16:38:00.000-07:002008-09-11T16:38:00.000-07:00you don't want to know my review process. i may ha...you don't want to know my review process. i may have to adjust it a bit now since i'm the one who will be doing the reviews...<BR/><BR/>i agree with squirrel, you should have a counter for times undergarments have been forgotten. lol<BR/><BR/>you've done great! you can hold your head high knowing that you have had ~major~ life changes this year but you are still functioning. still learning. still making friends. still leaving the house when you don't absolutely have too. <BR/><BR/>if you don't want to take tera up on her offer of d you can borrow cheeks. the two of you can make up stories till the cows come home and then eat blueberries by the bucket. i think she even likes beets too. (i'd have to check with her on that though)<BR/>course i'd be jealous then that she got to hang out with you and i didn't.<BR/>may have to rethink that offer.heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08706296327058741584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-82390638140795393352008-09-11T14:25:00.000-07:002008-09-11T14:25:00.000-07:00You must work for yourself MRT.You must work for yourself MRT.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-30049690150041718032008-09-11T14:00:00.000-07:002008-09-11T14:00:00.000-07:00Here is my way of getting through all performance ...Here is my way of getting through all performance reviews. When they start talking about what you did and yadda yadda, go, "Nonononono. *I* am Jen Luc Picard and *YOU* are Number One. You can proceed on my mark, Number One." <BR/><BR/>And then I never give the mark.<BR/><BR/>Works every time.M. Robert Turnagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01482286060613197537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-78781247958103660442008-09-11T13:54:00.000-07:002008-09-11T13:54:00.000-07:00Oops, actually Monty, she did give me credit for t...Oops, actually Monty, she did give me credit for taking care of myself - physically, psychologically, medically - but thought it odd to put into a performance review. Which I think it would be.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-12748795900571665622008-09-11T12:56:00.000-07:002008-09-11T12:56:00.000-07:00Last hour? Oh, how do you define that?? He start...Last hour? Oh, how do you define that?? He started trying earlier than that, once I said I would leave if we didnt' go to counseling... crap. I can't begin second guessing myself. Any of you women would be happy to have him. Maybe.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-64558049496569722302008-09-11T12:46:00.000-07:002008-09-11T12:46:00.000-07:00It's tough, but if you talked to him for years, an...It's tough, but if you talked to him for years, and he didn't try until the last hour, he'd probably go back to his old ways once he was sure he had you back again.<BR/><BR/>By all means, let yourself grieve and get pissed off. It's the only way to work through it.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-5631405431616670742008-09-11T12:29:00.000-07:002008-09-11T12:29:00.000-07:00Given your review, which went well, I wish your pe...Given your review, which went well, I wish your personal review had given you more credit for all the things that you do so well. They really do seem to outweigh the things you don't do so well. I think it's called balance. Ask Puss, she's the smart one.The CEOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02132181032041726978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-68198065637444990562008-09-11T11:54:00.000-07:002008-09-11T11:54:00.000-07:00You were just probably tired before the day after ...You were just probably tired before the day after eventually came...that's all.<BR/><BR/>Wow.Terahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05237609498669814077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-85984055222025522572008-09-11T09:46:00.000-07:002008-09-11T09:46:00.000-07:00See the thing is, eventually he did put forth effo...See the thing is, eventually he did put forth effort. I guess it's the word eventually that means something. Or it just wasn't mean to be. I have no fucking idea.<BR/><BR/>Bra was in the basement - drying. Mind wandered before I could get down there... Not wearing nasty sweaty bra from biking into work.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-282110335394927682008-09-11T09:31:00.000-07:002008-09-11T09:31:00.000-07:00NoR just remember...if you are the only one workin...NoR just remember...if you are the only one working on a relationship, it will NOT work. It takes equal effort from BOTH parties. It sucks, because we as women tend to give more than they are willing to give along the lines of effort. The fact that you have no regrets means that you did exactly what you were supposed to and will one day feel good about it.<BR/><BR/>Ahem...did you want a kid? I have an 8 year old who may need a new mother soon!<BR/><BR/>And why are you always forgetting your bra NoR? We're going to have to work on that! Every time you mention that, I think about what my day would be like if I forgot mine! Catastrophic!Terahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05237609498669814077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-4487857335646932392008-09-11T09:24:00.000-07:002008-09-11T09:24:00.000-07:00It went fine...It went fine...NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-12146506662661371022008-09-11T06:38:00.000-07:002008-09-11T06:38:00.000-07:00Squirrel, aw thanks. And I may indeed install a c...Squirrel, aw thanks. And I may indeed install a counter. And then I may never do it again - it might help.<BR/><BR/>Thanks Puss. I actually am walking around with my jacket off. Trying hard to control the urge to jump up and down in the hallway.<BR/><BR/>Susan, thanks for the tacos. You should read Puss' Wed post.<BR/><BR/>ALL - CRAP! My boss is stressed on the day of my performance review. Fuck me. This is going to be fun. Pain in my fucking ass.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-7261686097991887452008-09-11T06:36:00.000-07:002008-09-11T06:36:00.000-07:00{{hugs}}and tacos{{hugs}}<BR/><BR/>and tacosSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421276422785703472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-400924951827782042008-09-11T06:27:00.000-07:002008-09-11T06:27:00.000-07:00For all your (understandable) sadness, you seem to...For all your (understandable) sadness, you seem to be holding yourself pretty well and you deserve a huge pat on the back for that. As to your ex, it's easy to say you should have no contact with him, but unless it's damaging either of you, I think you should do what feels right for you.<BR/><BR/>No bra? Minx.<BR/><BR/>PussGlamourpusshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01450175254756849062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5356367299414474663.post-29019622217296615092008-09-11T06:16:00.000-07:002008-09-11T06:16:00.000-07:00Well, I give you an A+ performance review, for wha...Well, I give you an A+ performance review, for what it's worth. Great job keeping it together this year, despite hella trying times.<BR/><BR/>Re: bra. NoR, you are too much sometimes! I think you should put a counter on your blog for the times you've forgotten/neglected to wear some sort of undergarment to work.Squirrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03123239664107084602noreply@blogger.com