Thursday, February 26, 2015


So I've been figuring out that in the past whenever I had a personal problem my first instinct would be to go to someone else to talk to/help me out/take responsibility for it. This big realization and change to take control/responsibility has come in the last 6-12 months.  I just realized today that I do the same thing in my work. And it needs to stop now.

And we're off....


Mel said... first instinct is the direct polar opposite. I hife the issue until I have a solution. No one knows "what's wrong with Mel", or that an issue even exists. I suck at letting other people help me. But I can see where this habit of yours could interfere in the work place. Trust your abilities, I've learned that most times the answers lie inside me, if I just BE STILL long enough to truly look at the problem void of the emotional jazz.

Churlita said...

It's not always a bad idea to run things by someone else, but trust your instincts too. Let us know how your change works for you.