Can't fence snow in.
So, I was talking to my mom yesterday and she comes out with 'so, are you still moving to San Francisco?' WTF!!!??? I stumbled, mumbled, and sort of said I was. And then got off the phone both relieved and a little bit pissed. Because I had told my siblings with the expressed desire that they not say anything. I could guess who it was, but sent it to all. Of course, everyone but the one I thought it was responded "not me!" "not guilty!". The one I told that I was sort of relieved wrote back and said "well, if I had known it would make you feel better, I would have told her!".
So, a hurdle passed without me knowing it. Only one left is the EX.