Thursday, April 21, 2011

Past, Present, Future

I used to be adamant about trying to stay friends with ex-lovers/boyfriends/husbands. Yet my ex is gone out of my life. Is it so bad? Perhaps a clean slate is a good thing.


Mel said...

Nope. Not an all bad thing.

Life has a way of making arrangements.

Churlita said...

To me, it depends on the ex. I always have to give myself a couple of months away from them when we first break up to change my way of thinking about them and get over all the crap from it. Then I'm usually okay...Unless they're abusive. The abusive ones I stay away from forever. You're the only one can tell you if it's a good thing or not to not to see your ex.

laura b. said...

It was mostly the circumstances of you leaving the area, right? It wasn't anything bad, you both just moved on. I suppose it just happens.

NoRegrets said...

Mel, yes it does. But, sometimes, it's a choice. It can be a lot of work.

Churlita, yes, good, staying away from abuse forever is a damn good thing.

Laura, well, he actually made the choice, since he felt M was his friend and that was violated. Huh.