In all fairness

Both my husband and I are trying very hard to get through this difficult time. He's been great at adapting and dealing, and overall he really is a wonderful man. Just not the man for me. Someone asked me how I'd feel if I saw him with a woman at the gym, and knew he was dating someone. I'd actually be very excited for him. I doubt it would be the reverse, but that's the reality when one person wants the divorce and the other doesn't. We had more arguments last night, and they were money related, but I'm sure we'll work them out. We've both learned to back down and regroup to come back less angry. And we both care about the other, so it'll all work out somehow.

Of course, my mom just gave me a heart attack because she looked at the listing my realtor had sent me, and it was from when the current owner bought it in 2006, which I forgot, and my mom asked if I had gotten it because it said sold. I about had a heart attack and was ready to strangle my husband, but thankfully it's ok...for now at least...