Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Point / Counterpoint

Whoosh, and the three day weekend has gone by. I'm sorry to those who did not have a long weekend. I could say I relaxed but I'd be lying. I had a few moments of wonderfulness, and thankfully they are all related to M, but aside from that...work work work. Oh, and a girls' night that was in a place so loud you can't hear the person next to you. Those damn 20-something kids screaming, literally, in the bar. And saw Sherlock Holmes, which wasn't bad, but not great either. I was most excited about the fact that Ironman 2 is coming!

Relationships are hard work. Dammit. And it's the case of 'be careful what you wish for'. I wanted someone who expressed himself, and I got it! That doesn't mean he always knows exactly at a particular point what's bothering him, and patience is key (and yes, I do that too). And that doesn't mean he is 100% happy with things I do, which he shouldn't be, but dammit, that means I have to listen and try and change my ways. So, early relationship shit which of course will never end if we're lucky (ie we'll continue communicating). But, also things I wished for I got - case in point me squatting in the gym to pick up my shoes, and my underwear shows just a little bit, and he finds it sexy and touches the area instead of averting his eyes and telling me to pull up my pants. Thank goodness.

OK, I have to work. Will try and catch up today! And my bathroom is moving along, after a three day hiatus for various reasons and me getting worried I picked the wrong person...

5 comments:

Ananda girl said...

Sounds like a full weekend.

Relationship stuff is always a bit of a struggle, but worth it.

My three day weekend did not give me any rested feeling at all.

laura b. said...

Whoosh!

Relationships, bathroom improvements...challenging, but totally worth it.

Pamela said...

Whoosh! is it.

sorry Ananda...

Sebastien said...

I really liked Sherlock Holmes, but had some friends who expressed the same opinion as you. The pacing wasn't the best, and Rachel McAdams was out of place, otherwise I really liked the dialogue and the acting.

Churlita said...

I don't know how I missed this post. Anyway, it's awesome. Everyone is basically a pain in the ass, but Your guys sounds like a pain in the ass you might want to make an effort for and hold onto